So tonight I had an ah ha moment. My girls have been so naughty for the past week, not listening and breaking every rule I have ever made, even the good ones. It wasn't until now that I realized, maybe they're just wanting some mommy attention, but not showing this in the right way. After a lot of bickering and fighting, we sat down to play a game of Trouble. We just moved out pieces around the board to the number that we rolled. No other rules. Just a nice and friendly game. Before we started I said the game is immediately over if anyone starts arguing, fighting or whining. Ten minutes later we ended a very nice game. I think we all had a good time. Yes I had to stop what I was doing and take the time to sit and play, but it was well worth it. And we had not fighting! From anyone!
So next time, maybe I can take the cue better and spend a little time with them. Even if it doesn't sound like a pleasant thing to do with whining, etc...
